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The techniques below aren't rules written in stone, instead they are guidelines and ideas, change them as necessary to fit her preferences. 1) The Straight and Narrow This is a very simple technique for fingering a woman, and requires that you are sitting between her legs while she is seated or lying on her back, you can also sit to one side. This technique can vary slightly depending on how she likes it. You take the number of fingers she prefers, or just start at one and move up slowly, and insert it into her vagina. Then move your finger in and out at a speed she likes. During this activity you can either keep your fingers straight or curl them up slightly to get stronger friction on her g-spot. Some women enjoy a fair amount of pressure on their g-spots as they are usually not as sensitive as the clit. To take this move up a level you can incorporate your thumb into the mix by rubbing it against her clit as you move in and out. Just remember that tempo is critical and only do what you can without losing focus, if providing clitoral stimulation with your thumb is too much at first then don't do it, wait until you get adept and keeping a rhythm at various speeds. 2) Doubling Up This is a very powerful technique but before you attempt it make sure you can rub your stomach and pat your head at the same time. When you are able to do that you need to place yourself between the girl’s legs while she is lying on her back or sitting, you can also sit to one side or the other. With one hand you move your fingers in a thrusting motion inside her vagina and with the other hand you a make circular motion around her clit. To be able to more easily pull this one off without losing your smooth tempo you might want to start with only one hand or the other and when you're in the groove slowly add the second hand. Even though each hand needs to keep its own rhythm, nobody says both hands need to follow the same beat. Vary it, find what gets the best reaction and remember to always listen to what she has to say. 3) Take it up a Notch With Sex Toys As great as the human fingers are, sometimes it's nice to have a little extra variety, variety is the spice of life, you know. One option is called a finger, and rightly so, this little toy is essentially a small extension to your own digits. However it does have something your fingers lack; nubs and ticklers. You just place these over your own fingers and go on with business as usual. A different option is using a vibrator such as a bullet. You may know these as common sex toys that women use for masturbation, however they can be just as fun, if not more so, when used by a partner. You can even take the bullets up a level by adding a finger sex toy onto them! My Final Word If you want to truly become a better lover you need to think about variety, keeping things new, always trying new things. Practice makes perfect and that holds true, even in the sexual world. Pleasure comes in many variations and there are always more to find and explore. so don't let yourself get caught in a rut, go out and find to ways to please your lover, it's what will set you apart from all the other 'average joes'. And one last thing, some women don't produce enough of their own lubricant so always keep a supply of water-based lube on hand!
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This article was written by Eric Schmidt, a writer for The Sex Toy Life.com, a retailer of quality finger vibrators. He writes about various subjects including sexuality, sex toys, health and nutrition.
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